While the United States pretends to be a progressive and educated society, we come up lacking when it comes to the basic needs of our young. This is clearly evident when the topic of breastfeeding comes up.
US breastfeeding rates are abysmal, and the public view on nursing in public—and nursing in general—rank even lower.
While evidence supports numerous benefits for child, mother, and society, breastfeeding support is lacking and breastfeeding mothers are frequently treated poorly. Many, including the two-faced individuals who claim that they support breastfeeding and yet vehemently exclaim that they shouldn’t have to see that, would have others believe that discrimination against breastfeeding mothers and rude comments are a mythical occurrence. However, too many breastfeeding mothers can attest to discrimination and negative comments. Those instances that make it to the media are not isolated events.
How do we normalize breastfeeding against such ignorance and intolerance?
- Some mothers (and fathers) prepare and practice informative and/or witty comebacks.
- Some work towards educating the public.
- Others are setting the example, either with a purpose in mind or merely by meeting the needs of their children by nursing anytime and anywhere.
While educating others, meeting the needs of our children, and protecting ourselves are all important aspects of normalizing breastfeeding, I think we are missing the one thing that will go the furthest: empowerment!
Most of us have received a negative comment (or more than one) about breastfeeding at some time or other. If not, there are the comments about us, said loudly enough to make certain we hear them. How often have we heard positive comments?
Nothing we say is going to change these people. Expecting a majority to band together to support a minority is unrealistic, at best. Instead, I call for solidarity! Support other nursing mothers you see out and about. Anyone can do this. A kind comment, a cheesy smile, or even a thumbs up to show support goes a long way. If nursing mothers and their support networks (husbands, partners, parents, siblings, children) band together, we can empower each other (and future nursing mothers) and make a change.
Vow to make a small difference in the life of a nursing mother you don’t know.
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This article has been edited from a version previously published at Living Peacefully with Children.